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Pedophiles still free May 28, 2008

Filed under: child abuse, disability, law, sex education — maldiveshealth @ 9:33 am
 

The Right Way to Put on a Condom April 9, 2008

Filed under: HIV, Women and child health, sex education — maldiveshealth @ 3:28 pm

The right way to put on a condom and the right way to get the whole messy outcome out safely. (video length 3 min)

 

Swiss scientists say condoms not needed for HIV +ve people April 3, 2008

Filed under: Drugs, HIV, advice, death, disability, sex education — maldiveshealth @ 12:03 pm
I was alerted by a friend co worker to this very study done by a team of Swiss scientists. The report, published in the January issue of the Bulletin of Swiss Medicine, states that after review of the medical literature and extensive discussion with experts an HIV-infected person on anti retro viral therapy, cannot transmit HIV through sexual contact. What created all this confusion is due to the the fact that this study was done by the very top pundits on HIV from Switzerland. I mean, the experts on HIV and AIDS telling us something which discourages people to use condoms?
It seems that the findings from the study are valid only with strict conditions attached to it. And they are :
Understandably, all major health organizations reacted to this vehemently stating that…
And other position statementf from various concerned groups.
So people, its still not safe without a condom. I hope i have done my part informing the public.
 

Health Professionals about to lose the Veil March 22, 2008

It looks like Female Muslim doctors in UK can no longer wear the veil when they are with the patients. Good move i say. Enough is Enough.

Female Muslim doctors must be prepared to remove their veil to treat patients effectively, under new guidelines issued yesterday.
Religious clothing must not present a barrier to building trust and communicating with patients, the General Medical Council said.
Doctors should be prepared to set aside personal and cultural preferences, advised the document, Personal Beliefs and Medical Practice.
The council also said doctors must be open about procedures they object to because of their beliefs, such as abortion.
The Muslim Council of Great Britain supports the GMC guidance saying that female Muslim doctors have a responsibility to put patient care first.
Women could wear the hijab, which covers the head but not the face.
Dr Abdullah Shehu, the chairman of the Muslim Council’s medical committee, said: “While wearing a veil does not preclude someone from practising medicine, there is no harm in removing it where the ability to communicate or care for the patient is compromised. The Muslim community very much welcomes this guidance.”
The guidance states: “Some patients, for example, may find that a face veil worn by their doctor presents an obstacle to effective communication and the development of trust.
“You must be prepared to respond to a patient’s individual needs and take steps to anticipate and overcome any perceived barrier to communication.”
Other issues covered by the guidance are that doctors cannot refuse to care for patients before or after having an abortion because they object to the procedure.
They must also respect the views of Jehovah’s Witnesses, who refuse treatment if it involves having blood transfusions.
This article appeared in Women Against Shariah which is a site all women could subscribe to and learn from . There is nothing wrong in asking questions and reading material critical of a certain religion.
 

God Damn Maldive media March 17, 2008

It has been 2 days since a high profile person from the Presidents Office had been “arrested”, “taken away”, “abducted” or kept out from the publics eye . This “noble” person seems to have been sexually abusing his own daughter since she was nine years old. Only one newspaper has so far covered this. Yes. God damn Maldive media. If there is a god that is.
 

Why can’t the Dictator jail all convicted paedophiles? February 10, 2008

Dhivehi Observer, 10 February 2008
Our country has its fair share of problems from drug abuse to rampant gang violence. However, one of the most tragic evils facing our society today is the increase of child abuse and the lenient way paedophiles are treated by this regime.


Physical or sexual abuse of children often go undetected and unreported in many societies mainly because the adult who abuse the child is very often someone the child knows and trusts - a family member, a childcare provider, a family friend, neighbour, a teacher, etc. In such a circumstances, it is very difficult for such cases to come to the forefront. Even in the rare instance, when such cases get reported, Dictator Gayoom has shown no interest in protecting this most vulnerable asset of our country. On the contrary, systematically, the abusers are treated with extreme leniency even when there is a major public outcry.


Let’s take the notorious case of Naseem Sir (Soa), a teacher in Iskandar School, who raped several young girls over a period of time, all who were his students either in the school or who went for tuition to his house. When the news broke out the then Education Minister, Zahir Hussain went into denial. It was when one of the enraged dad’s tried to beat up Naseem Soa that the police finally investigated the case. However, even after getting convicted what did really happen to this evil man? After a few years in banishment, where he was at his will to abuse the children on that particular island, he was pardoned by the Dictator and allowed to continue teaching children. God only knows how many more children he has been able to abuse since!


In 2006 a survey by the Gender Ministry found that one in six women reported as having been sexually abused as a child under 15. These are just statistics for girl children and therefore the abuse of boys is not even documented. While the government has been downplaying these issues (the Gender Minister stated that the incident of child abuse in the Maldives “is within the norm of other countries”), these innocent souls are left at the mercy of these vile people who continue to torment them day in and day out.


The recent case of the Kurendhoo Four is another case in point. When four men raped a 12 year old girl, the court found that the child had ‘consented’ to sex by “not protesting’ and therefore sentenced the men to 8 months banishment. When there was a public outcry at this outrageous leniency, with criticisms from a local rights group, an online petition and a protest group on Facebook, the case was then referred to the high court. However, even the high court ruling has outraged the nation – the men were sentenced to be banished for 2 years! Just think of the plight of the children on those islands?


There have been several high profile cases over the years. Hamid Wajeeh, a former actor, was caught abusing children while being in charge of the government reformatory in Maafushi. After being convicted, he was sentenced to two years banishment of which he only served three months. He received a PRESIDENTIAL pardon! Recent cases of abuse include the one in Goidhoo, where a Quran teacher had been abusing children over a course of 10 years and nothing has been done about it. Other cases that have come to the forefront include those in Vaikaradhoo, Rathafandhoo and in Vilingili where a father was arrested on allegations of abusing his own daughter. And this is just the tip of the iceberg.


What is even more worrying is that the government seeks to brush off this abuse saying that in the Maldives there is a culture of silence and families tend to hide abuse due to the shame it could bring to them. This is just a pathetic excuse used by this regime. It is not that the families are reluctant to report such cases because of their shame but they are reluctant to do so because they know that this government will do nothing to mete out just punishments for the perpetrators. They do not report such cases because they have no faith in the justice system. They do not raise these matters because they know that the Dictator is a protector of paedophiles.


Why is he so soft on paedophiles? Could it be his own interest in young boys that is stopping him from acting against these vile creatures? It is well documented that his younger brother Abdulla Hameed likes young boys. Could it be that the Dictator himself is “fond” of them? One cannot help but wonder what happens to the young boys (mainly children of family friends) who are encouraged to visit the Presidential Palace and the Presidential retreat of Aarah? Many parents feel extremely uneasy about this unhealthy relationship that the Dictator has with these young boys but are too helpless to stop it for fear of repercussions from the Dictator.

However, we cannot afford to stay and watch while our young daughters and sons fall victim to abuse. We have to do something to protect the most vulnerable of our society. We cannot delay for tomorrow for the amendment to article 173 to reach the bench book. We cannot wait for tomorrow for the government to decide that children cannot give consent to sexual acts. We cannot linger around for the Dictator to make up his mind whether paedophiles should be banished or not. This is one issue that affects right across party lines. This is one matter that as human beings, we should be able to stand together, across the political divide, and demand that the government stop being soft on paedophiles; that ALL CONVICTED PAEDOPHILES BE JAILED FROM TODAY.
 

Is justice happening? January 30, 2008

Some NGOs in Maldives are supposedly advocating for the disabled and the vulnerable. This might be a misconception and a disguise. They should be learning from organizations like Justice For All activists in safeguarding the disable and the vulnerable in our community. Recently i saw a comment in a FaceBook discussion forum (Child Abuse Watch Maldives) where Afiya, a founder member of the NGO Care Society, was defending her decision to circumcise a disabled boy. I want to ask her whether she would defend a decision to remove a womb of a girl considering a disability in a girl in the name of making life better for a disabled girl. More or so , without their consent.
A US court recently went against such intervention. Doctors recommended another alternative than mutilation. An unnecessary procedure has been stopped from  being performed.

A mother’s wish to have her disabled teenage daughter’s womb removed looks set to become the next landmark case in the courts to test the ethics of medical intervention where patients cannot decide for themselves.

Disability groups and academics have been united in urging caution in the case in which Alison Thorpe wants doctors to perform a hysterectomy on her daughter Katie,15, who has cerebral palsy and the mental capacity of an 18-month-old child.

Times Online report can be read from here. And you can read a mothers argument of why she wanted her disabled daughters womb to be removed.

I wonder if in Maldives such intervention is taking place in the name of making things better for disabled children. This blog vehemently opposes such intervention even from the very beginning starting from the case of little Ashley.

 

 

 

Mullah Doctors who dont shake hands with women January 24, 2008

As more and more people are sent to Pakistan for their medical training, the number of mullah doctors are increasing day by day. I have to note here that there are a few who got their training from secular countries who have resorted to this kind of extremism. I have seen on many occasions a few doctors, who has long beards that resembles the like of jihadi terrorists, refusing to shake hands with women. Even when the sexiest looking woman presents her hand for a good shake, they refuse. Maybe they like male hands better.

I wonder how they deal with female patients? I wonder how they do the assessments needed to come to a diagnosis? I wonder about their professionalism? I wonder and doubt on their ability to diagnose female patients correctly? I wonder the logic behind them not shaking hands with women out of their practice (ie. if they do touch a woman for assessment purposes only)?

 

 

The UN-HOLY cut January 12, 2008

Filed under: death, disability, malpractice, nurse, sex education, special needs — maldiveshealth @ 3:44 am
It looks like that the number of Maldivians who are opposing the practice of circumcision is growing day by day. Previously, Hillath raised many questions on circumcision and admitted that he was traumatized by the experience. Now another person has asked me to publish her argument on this blog. It is a bit long but very informative and it looks like she has given a lot of time in writing this.

The foreskin has apparently been branded as a protective sheath for sensitive glans of the penis. It has been blamed for the urge to masturbate, various forms of cancer in men and women, as a spiritual impediment to male fertility and status, as a facilitator of various infections from gonorrhoea to HIV and also surprisingly for being unclean and undesirable appendage. Gods have been known as given the command to get rid of it, doctors have by turns vilified and defended it, courts have been asked to punish those who cut it off, and passionate defenders of ‘genital integrity’ have railed against equally sincere proponents of the ‘holy cut’.

My first experience to circumcision came about on my first week in a hospital environment as a student nurse. The first time i witnessed this procedure , i thought, why a perfectly healthy child is going to be given general anaesthetics (GA) and part of his genitalia amputated , for no reason other than because his parents wanted it done?

It was strange to me then, for it is against what i have been thought at uni. If one is to subject a patient to the risks of anaesthesia , haemorrhage, pain, infection and scarring, you better have a good reason as well as the informed consent of the patient. Furthermore, at the back of my mind, the medico-legal ramifications of all our actions started bombarding. Should anything go wrong with the circumcision, i wondered how the surgeon could possibly have justified his conduct to the jury: there was no medical justification to the procedure, the baby was not unwell in any kind of way and the baby had perfectly normal genitalia. ‘Do you mean to say, doctor,’ i imagined a judge asking, ‘that you anaesthetised this baby and removed part of his penis simply because his parents asked you to? Do you think, doctor, that your action was in the best interests of your patient, the child?’

Fortunately, circumcision rarely goes badly wrong. It is a minor surgical procedure, often by adopting very brutal methods, without anaesthetic by people all over the world for thousands of years. The circumcision that i witnessed at the hospital was a ‘freehand’ circumcision under GA, where the foreskin is cut off with scissors and the incision sutured to control the bleeding. Complication rates run at up to about 3 % of circumcisions and usually relate to post-operative bleeding and infection, both of which can usually be remedied with simple measures. Occasionally, too little too much foreskin is removed and as with any surgical procedure, unwanted scarring would occur. Uncommonly, bleeding may be severe and difficult to control or a serious infection may set in. There have been deaths from both haemorrhage and infection following circumcision.

There are some genuine medical indications for circumcision that can arise at any stage in life. The most common problem that leads to circumcision is phimosis, where the tip of the foreskin becomes too tight to allow full retraction of the foreskin over the head of the penis. This occurs in about 1% of the males and generally becomes apparent before puberty. It has traditionally been treated by circumcision, how ever the use of steroid creams and gentle retraction is often that is all required. It should not be confused with the adhesions between the foreskin and the glans that cause a delay in retraction- this is normal for many uncircumcised boys and results in great variability of the age at which the skin can be fully retracted. Usually , these adhesions will resolve spontaneously with time ; if problematic or associated with recurrent infections (balanitis), the adhesions can be divided in a simple procedure. More serious and chronic infections, such as balanoposthitis or balanitis xerotica obliterans, may require circumcision, as can penile cancer (an uncommon cancer that generally develops later in life).

So the vast majority of boys and men will never have a genuine medical reason for circumcision.

This is the joint opinion of the colleges of physicians, pediatricians, surgeons and urologists from Australia and NewZealand.

Their statement that “ there is no medical indication for routine neonatal circumcision” reflects the opinion of most doctors across the developed world. Their policy statement is perhaps the most useful document that any parent contemplating circumcision of their child could read, as it contains a clear summary not only of the medical perspective but also what we know about foreskins and how we should look after them, just like a woman should look after their breasts.

Despite this, some radical voices, from a very small minority of the medical profession continue to advocate the routine circumcision of baby boys. Their reasons for doing so now include research suggesting that circumcision may reduce the incidence of urinary tract infection (UTI) in baby boys, of HIV infection in men and of cervical cancer in women. It is important to address these public health matters, as they certainly may constitute a better reason for circumcision than previous notions have done.

The strongest such evidence relates to UTI; it is apparent that circumcised boys have lower rates of these infections, however most of these infections can be easily detected and treated with out complications. It is estimated that it would take more than 100 circumcisions to prevent one UTI in the first year of life. For otherwise healthy babies , the statistics would not suggest a net benefit from circumcision as far as UTIs are concerned.

The question of HIV transmission is inconclusive now with fresh research done in 2007 suggesting that they have found no sufficient evidence to support an interventional effect of male circumcision on HIV acquisition in heterosexual men . As i said ,the research on this matter done previous to the 2007 one, is unlikely to do anything more than distract from the primary public health message of safe sexual practice.

Of more relevance is of the question of a link to cervical cancer, which is associated with Human Pappiloma Virus (HPV). Again, research about different rates of HPV infection depending on circumcision, is in its infancy. One large study has suggested that circumcised men may harbour less HPV and thus, presumably, infect fewer women with the virus. This may or may not lead to a lower risk of cervical cancer in women. Furthermore, it would be an extraordinary and unprecedented idea that one person should have a surgical procedure in infancy in order to prevent another person from potentially contracting a carcinogenic infection at some time in the future.

It would seem a bit unfair, for example, to subject a boy to the risks of circumcision on these grounds if he subsequently if he becomes a celibate monk or priest. It seems far more reasonable that us women should choose whether or not to have unprotected sex with uncircumcised males, or take other measures , such as vaccination against HPV or pap smears, to reduce the risk of cervical cancer. HPV has also been linked to cancer of the penis , how ever since this is such a rare disease (affecting one in 100,000 men ), and one that occurs in both circumcised and uncircumcised men, no convincing argument can be mounted to justify circumcision as a worth while prevention strategy.

Many cultures practice circumcision at various ages and for various reasons. In Maldives is is done on the premises of an Islamic practice. The Jewish culture of circumcision at eight days of age (the brit milah) is perhaps the best known ritual, but it was also practised by ancient Egyptians and various indigenous cultures, as well as some parts of Africa and the South Pacific. Christians of the Copic persuation and Christians in some parts of Africa are also known to advocate circumcision , as do many Muslims, just like in Maldives.

In the last few days, i have asked the parents of circumcised boys who i have come across about their reasons for circumcision. Circumcision was a strong part of of their culture. What is also interesting is that is how uncomfortable many Maldivians are with talking about circumcision.

For the majority of males, the presence or absence of foreskin will make little appreciable difference to health, self image or sexual function. In the absence of good medical reasons to circumcise boys, perhaps decisions based on culture and religion present the strongest case for the operation.

Personally, i would be asking ‘ will my son take me for doing this?’ On this test, i suspect that many Jewish men or Muslim men (or those form other cultures in which circumcision is an integral part of the male journey) probably would be happy that the decision was taken. When things go wrong, however, faith and tradition can be of little comfort. It seems particularly dubious to me that a man injured by circumcision would thank his parents for at least trying to make him look ‘ just like dad’.

So think carefully about circumcision, and be aware that if your doctor is advocating it as a routine procedure, he or she is swimming very much against the strong tide of current medical opinion.

More on the policy statement on circumcision from the Australasian College of Physicians can be found from this link.


 

Shackles of Abuse: Why girls and women tolerate it January 5, 2008

Filed under: Drugs, Influences, Women and child health, death, disability, interests, sex education — maldiveshealth @ 4:50 pm

 

Childhood sexual abuse is a serious problem here In Maldives. Sexual abuse in childhood can manifest as mental health issues as an adult.

 

When i started to gather information to write this, it reminded me of my mother. My mother has always told my brother to treat women like princesses. And i am very lucky to have such a brother and mother.

 

The current understandings about the relationship between sexual harassment and health among women, dictates that violence, including sexual harassment will jeopardize the physical and emotional health of girls and young women. It is not only women or girls who are harassed in this way, but boys become victims as well. In majority of the cases it is the female though.

 

The prevalence of sexual harassment reminds us that boys learn at a very young age to see girls as less capable and less worthy of respect. And here lies the problem. Ask a boy or teenager and many would say that they like being sexually harassed by girls. Girls encounter sexual harassment as a common occurrence in their everyday lives. Many of the behaviours that are associated with sexual harassment of girls have historically been considered acceptable and the problem has not been taken seriously enough. In reality, the effects of this form of violence may be very similar to those suffered by recipients of other, more explicit, types of violence. Hence , these doings are socialized and girls accept and expect violence in their daily lives.

 

Harassment is often labelled as “teasing,”and many harassing behaviours are viewed as normal. These little teasing starts in the family where they learned about inequality being a norm and looking upon their sisters as inferior beings. Schools doesn’t help much either. The curriculum dictates that it is mom who makes sure that dinner is ready for dad when he comes home from work.

In the end, if we are to create a safer environment for girls and boys and for women and men, prevention efforts must address and include boys.

 

Violence occurs in many ways, including psychological,emotional, physical, and sexual. Adolescence is a crucial developmental period for both girls and boys. However, research findings indicate that girls tend to experience more psychological distress than their male counterparts. The great Freud spoke about a “fresh wave of repression” that girls experience during puberty. During adolescent years, acceptance by peers becomes more important than self respect. Hence what we see in teenage parties, girls wanting to “give head” etc… is understandable but should not be acceptable. What is happening in Maldives is no different from other countries. A girl is cool, only if she has slept with someone or given a head at a party. The recent trend is that if you do not smoke a joint you will not be accepted among your peers and you will be a loner. Hence the pressure to get involved with sex from a much younger age is intensifidd.

 

Sexual harassment is an expression of sexism that reinforces the unequal power that exists between men and women. It is unwanted and unwelcome sexual behaviour that interferes with everyday life. Verbal sexual harassment may include demeaning comments, insults, invasive questions, whistling, racist comments and slurs, demands, threats, propositions, persistent invitations for dates, or harassing phone calls. Physical sexual harassment may include grabbing, touching, rubbing, threatening acts, flashing, or fondling. Reports from the government available to us states that marital rape with out consent is a huge problem in Maldives.

 

Sexual harassment can be of visual in nature and includes invasive watching such as leering or ogling, sexual gesturing, pornographic material,or demeaning and disturbing graffiti. I must say that Maldivian men and boys are masters at this. In one way Bulhaas blog with all her pictures and drawings and self expression says something about the nature in which a young girl thinks.

 

Usually and more often than not, girls who are sexually harassed and abused may drop out of school, be depressed ,have feeling and being unsafe in public places, eating disorders, anxiety, post-traumatic stress syndrome, substance misuse, low self-esteem, psychosis, dissociative symptoms and suicidal thoughts and attempts can linger often with them. It is often you hear that a woman with a psychosis with a history of abuse, telling you about the “voice” which is usually from the perpetrator.

 

Hence it is wise to ask the question of whether these kinds of abuse is causing the suicides in Maldives?

Are people reluctant to talk about this in a large scale because they too have been sexually abused?

 

Early childhood traumatic experiences are likely to use unconscious primary defense mechanisms such as repression and splitting as coping strategies. Sexual harassment is one of the most insidious, yet pervasive, forms of violence that affects all girls.

 

Sexual abuse is a taboo and it is shameful, and so is shame.